i had never even heard of the guy until now and i was this close to crying after reading that letter, jesus christWas he Steel? I didn't visit GamingW very much, but I followed his thread very closely. He was one of the lifelines of the community, like Doug is to Smogon. I talked to him once. He had cancer at 23. And when he died, when I read every reaction, when I read his letter, I really cried. He was an incredible guy. He wanted to help people and leave behind a legacy. For me, he did.
I've been pretty lucky where deaths are concerned until recently when my dad committed suicide. He did it due to a bunch of problems with my mom, and he was kind of psycho, but I can't pretend it didn't hurt like fuck when I found out he actually did it. He literally sat me down in my room and told me he was going to do it, which completely freaked me out, and then I started cussing him out, telling him if he was really making up bullshit like this just to make me listen to him that he could go suck a dick. My mom called the cops, who came with a psychologist, and he bs'd his way past them by 'admitting' he was just bluffing. He left about 20 minutes after the cops did, and then a couple hours later we got a call from a guy who lived about 15 minutes away from us, telling us he found my dad lying on the street with a gun in his hand and his head in a pool of blood. And I just sat on my bed doing nothing but feeling like shit and mentally beating the crap out of myself. The man who taught me how to play sports, who helped me with girls, who was there for me on just about every occasion was dead because I just wouldn't listen to him on something as trivial and stupid as the fact I wanted to go to a party on saturday night instead of doing homework. I felt empty, horrible, and I hated pretty much the whole world. I considered suicide, and then I thought 'do i really want everyone who knows me to deal with the shit that i am right now?' and decided against it. That being said, if I did die I would want smogon to know about it, I have a couple online friends who I have on facebook that would probably let it be known.