My boyfriend's grandfather (who he was very close to) had been very ill for a while and he just died very late last night. To put it simply, I don't really know what to do or say to my boyfriend to console him.
I feel naive because I've never had to deal with a death of anyone close before, and even so, I'm not very close to any of my relatives at all (considering how most of them live on the other side of the world in Taiwan so I never see them). I'm afraid I'll say or do something stupid or that will come off as being "cold," even when it's just that I don't know better. Sure, he has a fair number of friends here at college, but really, the only person he spills emotional stuff to is me, which kind of puts me in an awkward position at the moment because I don't know what to do.
Advice, please?
I feel naive because I've never had to deal with a death of anyone close before, and even so, I'm not very close to any of my relatives at all (considering how most of them live on the other side of the world in Taiwan so I never see them). I'm afraid I'll say or do something stupid or that will come off as being "cold," even when it's just that I don't know better. Sure, he has a fair number of friends here at college, but really, the only person he spills emotional stuff to is me, which kind of puts me in an awkward position at the moment because I don't know what to do.
Advice, please?