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I know of some girls who can RNG on here. All this stuff may seem complicated at first, but you'll get used to it. I can help you learn the stuff if you want =)
I feel kind of bad because I sort of influenced her decision about changing her name. I just said to her that I thought it was strange. If only we could change our names more than once =(