Summary of my deleted post that wasn't personal or angry at all: Time isn't really indicative of racism. Its all about social politicization . The next generation will have the same views as the last.And with a specific racist term like (BAN ME PLEASE) you cant really beat around the bush and say thats not racist.
The main problem that I see with the black community in the States:
1. The push to purge the word to a taboo level by making it into "something that which cannot be named," even go as far as editing works like those of Mark Twain. Even though Mark Twain treated black characters very well, and was a civil rights advocate.
Furthermore, the term has become saturated into Black English/Ebonics as a term of endearment. So it's become a term that "only blacks can say, but no one else." It's just muddled the issue, so instead of "(BAN ME PLEASE)" becoming the next "bugger" or "wop" it's become akin to the old blue laws on blasphemy.
2. Generation split between old civil rights and the economic realities of today. There's a real split in social classes through various factors. The old guard still looks for old ghosts to fight, while the youth want more economic justice through opportunity and cultural change.
3. Victim narrative, it's a large pain in the ass when dealing with any population. Study Shia Islam's martyrs, American Indians and Manifest Destiny, Jews with the Holocaust, and ect. What I will say, though, is that in general the tribes have probably dealt with their victim narrative the best in that their elders excepted the good and taught the bad. The black community, though, in certain sections has specific coalitions and organizations that perpetuate an agenda that is no longer compatible with today's America.
I have severe disagreements with specific bad outcomes with the victim narratives, when in reality we should be embracing the good that came out of great evil and in part move on and preserve other parts of our cultures in conjunction with the narratives of strife. A society's identity ought not to be founded upon victimhood, rather struggle, survival, and eventually overcoming and flourishing socio-culturally.